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Post by SnakeFire on Jan 25, 2005 11:39:04 GMT -5
^Do you look at the names of the threads before you make an attempt to diss them? This is a thread in which members can get some things off their chest. You should read the posts some time...
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Post by DbzGokussj4 on Jan 25, 2005 11:41:20 GMT -5
Topic it advice for all mambers not story time.
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Post by SnakeFire on Jan 25, 2005 11:45:19 GMT -5
Topic it advice for all mambers not story time. It isn't story time. We say what is on our minds and people respond. They give advice. You are just making fun of the idea that Outlaw has come up with.
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Post by DbzGokussj4 on Jan 25, 2005 11:47:54 GMT -5
i didnt even read any of the ideas. and done care. Latter
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Post by BlackCoven on Jan 25, 2005 12:50:09 GMT -5
Then thanks for wasting 3 posts genius......
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Post by rjxsapri® on Jan 25, 2005 13:09:09 GMT -5
You, Rjx, are an amazing person. And a note on the suicide... you can die anytime. But once you do, its over. You don't get another chance. Do you really want to give up like that now? Ok, so I didn't come up with that, its a ToS quote, but hopefully you can see the meaning. If you want friends I would not advise looking at your workplace. You like your music right? Gigs. I met so many cool people at gigs and festivals and even if I never see them again until the next gig or festival I still consider them great friends. You are kind, friendly and funny. You should have no probs if you just try. Confidence is a problem, I know what its like. But just be yourself. After overcoming it once you can do it again and again. Its hard, oh yes, but worth it. The most important word to remember is try. First of all, WELCOME BACK!!!! Second of all, even though I have the insisting thought of sucide in my mind, I've ignored it so much that I have get used to it. Now I'm sure that it will never be anymore than just a thought. I don't want to do that. About my confidence, believe me that I try...and going to gigs and stuff might be a good idea, but I first need to find a way to get rid of this fear I have. If I go to a gig I'll be afraid of the people there, I feel I'll be ridiculed, I'm just afraid of other people, especially girls.
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Post by SKJTapion on Jan 25, 2005 14:04:15 GMT -5
I have weird stuff going on in my life. But, I only started changing after my cousin was found at the bottom of a lake....seriously. After the funeral I started to lose faith in things- all things. I started wondering if God had loved everyone in the aspects as I have learned in church, than why would my cousin be dead? I started asking myself whether or not my faith was real- was God real? Jesus? Our religion? Or was it just some cult that had gotten to a point of being a religion? I am a person who doesn't ask for much. I don't ask for to many favors from friends or family. I am always wanting to help other people. But when it does come time for me to ask for help or for something, nobody gives me the time of day- they just throw their own shadow over me, like I'm not there. I am a person who is losing her faith in life and the things that you learn in life. I am losing all respect for a lot of people at my school (teachers and students alike). I am beginning to get annoyed by the fighting and the drama that usually starts it. I used to be all excited about fights- now it has just grown old on me. I think that I am maturing way to fast for my own age. As I have already said, I am not a person who asks for much. I also don't say much. I like to listen to people. I like helping people. But I know that if I say something about me, my friends or family will think that I am being selfish- they'll say that I am rambling on about nothing but me. The thing is, that I never do it. When I do, the people that should be comforting me push me aside. I hate that. So friggin much. Thats tricky... I never suffered loss of faith but I did question other people's when my Gran, a devout Christian, died at only 62 from a gall stone. No, my faith has always been intact so I can't help you there... If you need someone to talk to, well, we are always here. If you need to talk to someone face-to-face... GT lives near you doesn't he? And as for the problems at school... You need to ask yourself what you want out of life. And set yourself a target, a dream. Of what you want to do. It makes school more tolerable. Sorry if I ain't much help, like I said I've never felt this way. Well, firstly, thats good. Suicide is the wuss' way out. About the gigs... who is your favourite band? Go to their gig, it will be full of people who you may will fit right in with. Example: If I go to a Dropkick's gig and start dancing a little jig while they are playing, people are more likely to join in than take the piss. You get me? Its hard to explain... As for you DbzGokuSSJ4... I know you will read this, you will return just to see people's reactions to what you said. So here is my reaction. Get stuffed, don't be so insensitive.
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Post by gokuromario on Jan 25, 2005 15:02:33 GMT -5
this is great, so many people wanting to help each other, this is exaclty what i wanted
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Post by SKJTapion on Jan 25, 2005 15:25:37 GMT -5
Well then, feel proud.
I suppose I should share a problem... what problem do I have? Um... Oh yeah! I can't cry. Doesn't bother me. Its just weird.
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Post by Marccio on Jan 25, 2005 16:09:10 GMT -5
I'm having problems with my girlfriend. She's a really busy person and when you don't see her for a day. She acts like it's been months and doesn't talk to you as much. Which, believe me, happens a lot. I really like her, and don't want our relationship to end. What can I do to make our relationship stronger?
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Post by YoshikiRose on Jan 25, 2005 16:40:19 GMT -5
Heh, dump her. She's either working too hard to be in a relationship, or you're not trying hard enough, seriously. While I understand what DBZgokussj4 is trying to say, that this is a forum not a livejournal and not proper therapy I still think it's better to get help from people you know. I'm not really sure if I want help in some things, even though those things could be considered morally wrong...however, I do have a livejournal, oddly enough, and it's my "website" And gokuromario, it's nice to know another autistic person. My younger brother is autistic, but he has it to such a degree that he cannot communicate almost at all. He mumbles and jabbers and squeals and that sort of thing. He's 9 years old.
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Post by DeLaRocha99 on Jan 25, 2005 18:30:17 GMT -5
And gokuromario, it's nice to know another autistic person. My younger brother is autistic, but he has it to such a degree that he cannot communicate almost at all. He mumbles and jabbers and squeals and that sort of thing. He's 9 years old. That's really sad. I'm sorry, but this thread is way too sad for me
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Post by SnakeFire on Jan 25, 2005 20:25:57 GMT -5
This is funny. When I get hurt, I don't cry- I can't. The last time I cut myself (not purposely, lol) I just laughed. I laugh when I get hurt. Even when I get a headache I try not to laugh. I only cry when someone hurts me right here... *points to heart* Or if someone else gets hurt, physically or personally. I am weird...
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Post by Marccio on Jan 25, 2005 20:39:58 GMT -5
no your not, your just empathetic. Like me ;D We're a dying breed
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Post by SnakeFire on Jan 25, 2005 20:43:45 GMT -5
^Isn't that the truth, lol!
Fluffy- I have a number of cousins that are autistic. One of my cousins has Down Syndrome. Not that bad of a case, but pretty bad...
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